Most people with eating disorders have huge difficulties with the idea of loving ourselves and that’s what has led us down this tricky path.
We often don’t deem ourselves worthy of love, care and nourishment because we don’t feel comfortable in our own skin. Read more
Having an eating disorder can feel like a very lonely place.
You may be surrounded by caring, empathetic people yet somehow still feel alone or like you don’t want to burden anyone.
You might also need some friendly advice at an unconventional time when your usual network of support is unavailable. Read more
With exams coming up and post-Christmas blues, it’s easy to fall into a negative thinking trap that can really take over your January.
Given that exams require your 100%, it is important that you feel at your best – both mentally and physically. Both go hand in hand. Read more
There's no doubt that this year has been one of the hardest years of my life. And now it's coming close to that time when there is some sort of unidentifiable hope for a new start, fresh year - no problem. Read more
If you would like to share your experience of being involved in a research study, or contribute as a blogger please contact us so that we can share this and encourage others to come forward.Read more
We are all models. Yes that’s right. We all have the potential to be positive role models to everyone we ever come into contact with. What a fantastic opportunity.Read more
I often imagine the eating disorder as a little, annoying, scheming, evil, ugly creature, sitting on my shoulder, always there in the background, nagging and niggling constantly throughout the day. It plants horrible thoughts in my head about the next mealtime and craves anxiety to fuel its mischievous nature. Fighting it off is difficult, it may be little, but it has a strong grasp and you need to work harder and harder every day to try and shift it. But it dislikes laughter. Positive feelingsRead more
Now if you’re into musicals then you may have heard of a new Broadway musical called Dear Evan Hansen. If you haven’t heard of it, then I highly recommend looking it up and listening to the soundtrack. One of the repeated phrases is “you are not alone” which echoes throughout the song “You Will Be Found”. Never feel you are not important and have no one to talk to. Even amongst change, you can find people who will be there for you, listen and help.Read more
In the past few weeks I’ve experienced snippets of all the good things life has to offer, and it reinforced the notion of how much this illness makes me miss out on and how much it sacrifices my future.Read more
The Queen’s Award for Voluntary Service is the highest award given to local volunteer groups and charities across the UK to recognise outstanding work in their communities.Read more
Eating Disorder Charity, First Steps Derbyshire shortlisted for Health Service Journal Award.Read more
Christmas is considered one of the best times of the year: family, presents, love, laughter, joy and- like most other large social occasions- food. For individuals with eating disorders, that last part is particularly hard to deal with.Read more
Eating disorders can be triggered by a number of factors and they’re different for every sufferer. I feel that the media is one of the most unhelpful influences and the mainstream representation of body image can be seriously damaging, particularly for young women.Read more
September swings around again, pushing out the (slightly) warmer weather and shades and sweeping in the autumnal breeze and the return of the coat.Read more
“You were born to dance to the beat of your own heart; to roam without cages; with the innocence of a child, and the free spirit of untamed horses; I hope you laugh without stopping, live with abandon, and love that’s all there is; stay wild!”Read more